Finding happiness is not always easy. It is something that we have to do for ourselves in order to have the life that we want and need.  The road to happiness in a relationship is also something that we have to peruse so that we living the life that we want with the person that we can share it all with.  Taking the time to figure out what we need and want is the most difficult part of it all. There are some steps that we can take to get us where we need to be.

Being happy in your relationship is going to depend on you and your mate. You both have to work hard to keep it on the right path so that you can dream and have the life that you have always wanted together forever.  You need to work hard and do what you can to make this happen.  Dream big and make sure that you keep your expectations to a reality.  Keep your goals set and work hard to make a great relationship.

1. First of all, you need to communicate with your partner.

You want to make sure that you are speaking all the time and keeping in touch with what each other wants and needs. Think about how you want to be treated and this is what you should represent when you are talking to your spouse. You need to be sure that you are keeping communication high so that you can feel good about one another and know what is going on in your separate worlds.  Do not be afraid to talk about things that you want from the relationship as well. You want to be sure that you are expressing what you want and need out of him. This will help you feel better and you should encourage him to let you know what he wants and needs as well.

2. Dreaming together is part of sharing a happy relationship.

Make sure that you are planning ahead and keeping all of your dreams in focus. Think about what you want to do tomorrow as well in the future.  Do you want to have children, are you going to get married, where do you want to live are all dreams that you should be planning together so that you can both have what you expect and want in the relationship. If you do not share the same types of future dreams, you may not ever find true happiness together.

3. Play your part in the relationship. You need to contribute good things and even some bad to the relationship.

You have to own what you do and keep what you want to have as well as change the things that are not making you happy. This will go both ways and you have to be sure that you are ready to stick to your guns and keep what you are looking for in the relationship.

4. Another good step in creating a happy relationship is to realize that you cannot change someone else.

You are the only person that you can change.  If you think that you are going to make him change this is probably not a good expectation to have. You will not like it when someone tries to get you to change so it is important to not try and change anyone else. You need to accept him for who he is and if you are not happy with the way that you are acting, you need to change. You have to do your best to create the person that you want to be so that you can find happiness in your relationship.

5. Paying attention to each other’s complaints is another way to build a good relationship with each other. 

You need to listen to him and find out what is not making him happy. This will be the same for him listening to your complaints. This is the only way that you can make sure that you are going to be doing all the right things to create a good and healthy relationship with each other.

6.Trust is one definite for any relationship.

You need to build a good and solid relationship on trust. This is something that is going to get you far. If you cannot be honest with him then you are not going to stand a chance. You have to be ready to take on the part of being honest and sharing everything. Do not keep things from him and do not accept this behavior on his part either. Being honest is a great idea and way to stay happy and take that step closer to a better relationship.

7. Having fun is always a good thing in a relationship.

Do things that you are both going to enjoy and make sure that you are doing things that make you happy and keep you interested in each other and the things that you like. Make sure that you are making memories so that you have them for a lifetime to come. You can have a happy and healthy relationship with the partner that you think is right for you.

8. Never give up.

This is a step that you have to enforce. You need to keep on being persistent and make sure that it all works out for you in the end. You deserve to be happy and this is something that is going to be good for you in the end. You want to make sure that you are doing all that you can to keep a healthy and happy relationship to last a lifetime.

With these happy relationship steps you can have a great time and the life that you are looking for to create the love of your life.  You need to make sure that you are doing all that you can to encourage a happy and very successful life with the partner that you have always dreamed about.

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You know that men are going to do things that we just do not like.  It is going to happen regardless of what we do or think.  There are men that just have to lie to us and tell us what we want to hear even if we know that they are completely lying to us.  There are things that women have to know and learn about why men say that love us even when they are still seeing someone else. 

When a man cheats on us, it can be devastating. It can be a very big heartache to learn that the man that we love is still seeing someone else.  He is cheating on us!  This is an unacceptable issue that women have to control no matter what they feel or think.  There are reasons behind why men say they love us when they are double timing and it is important to learn why.

1.     Men want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to have you with them forever because they do love you and you have been there with them through a lot of things. However he also want to see if the grass is greener on the other side. This is why most men still say that they love you no matter what.  It is up to us as women to put an end to it and give them an ultimatum to choose the one that they love the most.

2.     Men will tell you that they love you because they want you to believe them. They want you to think that they are not cheating and that everything is fine.  Giving you the affection that you want may end up keeping them out of the doghouse so that they can continue to see the other person that they have been. 

3.     A man will tell you that he loves you because he does not want to lose you.  They may be seeing someone else on the side, but they would not want you to do the same. By telling you that they love you this will keep you believing that everything is ok and that you will not go out and try and find someone else. They want to keep you even though they are not being faithful and they surely do not want you to go and find anyone else.

4.     Sometimes a man may tell a woman what she wants to hear.  Keeping her in the dark may be the way that he wants it as well as the woman.  If you are a woman that does not want to believe that your man is cheating and that he still loves you, it is going to be evident that you believe everything that he is saying to you. 

5.     A man may tell you that he loves you even though he is still seeing a former girlfriend because he is not sure if he wants to leave her or not. He may not feel ready to leave his existing girlfriend or wife but he may want to be with you at the same time. This is a confusing time for him and the only way that he can do is to continue to tell you that he love you so that he can buy some time to figure it all out.

6.     Having a man tell you that he loves you and still seeing someone else is going to be hard on you.  He may want to do this to wear you down. Some men have a control issue and this may be his way to keep you under his wing. He may tell you that he loves you or tell you that he is the only one that will ever really love you. When a man does this, he is trying to control you and keep you from feeling good about yourself.

7.     A man may also tell you that he loves you while seeing someone else because he is afraid of getting caught. He may think that you do not know anything at all and that everything is fine.   You need to either decide to accept this or tell him that you are not going to take it anymore.

No matter what the reason is behind him telling you that he loves you and cheating on you, you have to figure it out. You need to do whatever you can to get clear, take charge of your relationship circumstances and make the situation better.  You need to decide what is better for you and what will make you happy in life.  Your happiness is the most important thing that you need to consider. If you are not clear, you will only prolong your suffering and deny yourself the joy and happiness you deserve.

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Someone has ever asked me, "Cucan, is it possible that we can go back to the way we are; that things will be the same as it is initially when we first meet, or when we first fall in love?"

My answer is, you can't fall in love forever! One day you will fall out of it. In fact, change if the only constant in this world. Things can't be staying the same all the time.

Because of change, life is forever beatiful and spontaneous!

But because of your faith, you can stay together till the end of time.

To keep your partner in the relationship with you, what you can do is to learn how to get out of fights and disagreements as quickly as possible.

1. Be aware of the times when you assert yourself too strongly.

Try to catch youself the urge to question his whereabouts, her hairstyle, him not spending time with the babies, her not behaving in the way you want in front of your friends, etc.

Understand that you can fall into the trap of wanting to see your partner as how you want it to be, not how he or she wants his or her life to be.

2. Understand that when we feel hurt, or feel offended, the feelings is our response.

One morning you could go to work feeling miserable, or with your self-confidence shaken because of some adverse experience.

Your partner comes by and give you a hug, and you feel good about yourself.

But not today. Today you are suffering tensions of self-doubt, anxiety and insecurity. We take his action in the wrong way, become offended. This is when quarrels occurs, breakups happen.

So, remember this, we are injured and hurt emotionally, not so much by other people or what they say or don't say, but by our own attitude and our own response.

3. Remind yourself that you have the power to be able to pause.

Be willing to see the truth, select an appropriate response, thereby CHOOSING the direction your relationship with your loved one would go.

Remember this: no one react to "things as they are," but to his own mental images or OPINIONS of what is happening.

Most of the time your partner's reaction or actions is not taken to frustrate or disappoint you, but because he (she) "understands" and inteprets the situation differently from us.

Always ask yourself this question "Why he (she) might "act the way he (she) does?"

4. Don't add your own opinions to facts.

Fact: Your wife asks for more space and freedom from you. Opinion: She does not care about our relationship anymore.

Fact: Your boyfriend orders the food he likes. Opinion: He never thinks of what I would like to eat today.

Fact: Your husband throws his clothes onto the bed after work. Opinion: He does this to purposely irritate me.

You kick up a fuss. Most likely other unrelated stuff will be brought in and a storm will begin.

Ask yourself, are you reacting to your own opinions?

5. Train youself to always possess a feeling of constructive influencing of your partner through your own personality instead.

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Many people do feel themselves as incapable and lousy that they can't seem to be able resolve a fight or quarrel with their partner.

So what do they do? They continue to fight, and they continue to quarrel.

Just remind yourself that 2 people can look at the same thing differently. If you catch yourself arguing for something not important at all, decide to walk away from it at once! Decide that it is just not worth it to spoil a wonderful relationship over a minor issue.

Remember, being in a relationship is not "never fight with my boyfriend", nor is it "never argue with my wife".

It's how quickly you can snap out of a disturbing situation.

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